PERSELINGKUHAN CALON PENGANTIN PASCA KHITBAH DALAM PANDANGAN MASYARAKAT DAN HUKUM ISLAM (Studi Kasus di Desa Kambingan Kecamatan Tumpang Kabupaten Malang)

Abstract

Based on the results of observations, in Kambingan Village, Tumpang District, Malang Regency, there were cases of cheating on the bride and groom after the khitbah, with each case having different problems and causal factors. Therefore, this study discusses (1) the factors that cause infidelity after the khitbah bride and groom in Kambingan Village. (2) The public's view of the bride and groom's infidelity after the khitbah in Kambingan Village. (3) Review of Islamic law on cheating of future bride after khitbah in Kambingan Village. In this study, researchers used qualitative research techniques. Data collection techniques using library research (library research) and field research (field research) to collect data through interviews, observations, and records. The results of this study show that, some people already consider it permissible to get along like husband and wife. This is clearly against the rules of islam, because Islam forbids men and women to be alone together without a mahram even though they are engaged until there is a husband and wife bond. Because the behavior of the bride and groom during the khitbah period, such as going out together, holding hands, riding in a group, being alone or seclusion can lead to adultery which is forbidden by Allah SWT.