UPAYA MEMBANGUN KELUARGA SAKINAH PASCA PANDEMI COVID-19 PRESPEKTIF ULAMA NU ( STUDI KASUS DI DESA NGROTO PUJON )

Abstract

Abstract

Family is the most important component in life. The family has a role in building religion and the state. However, not every human being can build a family that is sheltered by happiness. Islam teaches that getting married is not just about formalizing relationships and getting offspring. However, always as explained in Q.S. AR-Rum 30: 21, to be wrapped in calm, happiness, covered by a sense of love and care for one another. The period of the covid pandemic and all the policies implemented in Indonesia had an impact on all aspects of life. There are many aspects of life that must be improved. The economy is a real thing that currently needs to be fixed. The economic factor is an important factor, because the economy has a direct effect on people's lives. A weak economy often affects household harmony. From the research background above, the researchers formulated the problem, namely how is the meaning of a sakinah family according to NU scholars. How does the Covid-19 pandemic affect family life in Ngroto village, Pujon district. And what are the efforts to build a sakinah family after the Covid-19 pandemic in Ngroto village, Pujon sub-district, NU Ulama Perspective. The purpose of this research is to find out how the sakinah family is understood according to NU scholars. How does the Covid-19 pandemic affect family life in Ngroto village, Pujon district. And what are the efforts to build a sakinah family after the Covid-19 pandemic in Ngroto village, Pujon sub-district, NU Ulama Perspective. To achieve the above objectives, the research was carried out using a case study type of research, the approach used in this study was a qualitative approach. As for the data sources in this study, the opinions of three NU Ulama, KUA staff and several communities in the Ngroto village area, Pujon sub-district. the methods used were observation, interviews and documentation, then processing techniques and data analysis were carried out in three stages, namely data reduction, data presentation and drawing conclusions. The results of the research and adjustments between several cases in Ngroto village, Pujon sub-district, and what had been conveyed by NU Ulama about the sakinah family. Shows several efforts in building a sakiah family, namely: Mutual trust, prioritizing family, holding promises to each other, fulfilling primary and secondary needs, good relations with neighbors.

Keywords: Effort, Sakinah Family, Post-Pandemic, NU Ulama

Abstrak.

Keluarga merupakan komponen terpenting dalam kehidupan. Keluarga yang memiliki peran dalam membangun agama serta negara. Namun, tidaklah setiap insan dapat membangun keluarga yang dinaungi kebahagiaan Islam mengajarkan, dalam melangsungkan pernikahan tidak hanya semata-mata meresmikan hubungan dan mendapatkan keturunan. Namun, senantiasa seperti yang dijelaskan dalam Q.S. AR-Rum 30 : 21, agar terbalut dalam ketenangan, kebahagiaan, diselimuti oleh rasa cinta dan saling menyayangi satu sama lain. Masa pandemi covid dan segala kebijakan yang diterapkan di Indonesia berdampak pada seluruh aspek kehidupan. Banyak aspek kehidupan yang harus diperbaiki. Ekonomi merupakan hal nyata yang saat ini perlu diperbaiki. Faktor ekonomi menjadi faktor yang penting, karena ekonomi berpengaruh langsung terhadap kehidupan masyarakat. Ekonomi yang melemah seringkali berpengaruh pada keharmonisan rumahtangga. Dari latar belakang penelitian diatas maka peneliti merumuskan masalah, yakni Bagaimana pengertian keluarga sakinah menurut ulama NU. Bagaimana pengaruh pandemi covid-19 terhadan kehidupan berkeluarga di desa Ngroto kecamata Pujon. Dan Bagaimana upaya membangun keluarga sakinah pasca pandemi covid-19 di desa Ngroto kecamatan Pujon Prespektif Ulama NU. Tujuan Penelitian ini adalah untuk mengetahui bagaimana pengertian keluarga sakinah menurut ulama NU. Bagaimana pengaruh pandemi covid-19 terhadan kehidupan berkeluarga di desa Ngroto kecamata Pujon. Dan Bagaimana upaya membangun keluarga sakinah pasca pandemi covid-19 di desa Ngroto kecamatan Pujon Prespektif Ulama NU. Untuk mencapai tujuan diatas penelitian dilakukan dengan jenis penelitian yang dilakukan ialah studi kasus, pendekatan yang digunakan dalam penelitian ini pendekatan kualitatif. adapun sumber data dalam penelitian ini Pendapat tiga Ulama NU, Staff KUA dan beberapa masyarakat di wilayah desa Ngroto kecamatn Pujon. metode yang digunakan adalah observasi, wawancara dan dokumentasi, lalu teknik pengolahan dan analisis data dilakukan dengan tiga tahapan yaitu reduksi data, penyajian data dan penarikan kesimpulan. Hasil penelitian dan penyesuaian antara bebebrapa kasus yang ada di desa Ngroto kecamatan Pujon dengan apa yang telah disampaikan oleh Ulama NU tentang keluarga sakinah. Menunjukkan beberapa upaya dalam membangun keluarga sakiah yaitu:  Saling percaya, mengutamakan keluarga, saling memegang janji, memenuhi kebutuhna primer dan sekunder, berhubungan baik dengan tetangga.

Kata Kunci : Upaya, Keluarga Sakinah, Pasca Pandemi, Ulama NU